Sunday, August 19, 2007
seng had a birthday party at his place today... quite alot of guests... his relatives, his army frenz as well as us, poly frenz... food was ok, he ordered buffet so yea... sad thing was he got drunk halfway thru the party and was lying in his pool of vomit, deep in lalaland... guess they made him drink too much already... anyway, wanted to go out for supper with frenz, but due to some unreasonable conditions, we passed on it...
you know, sometimes i just hate it when parents think that they know all about there is to life... about what's good for their children, how they like to control their movements, how they think they know better just because they are older and I ESPECIALLY HATE IT WHEN THEY THINK THAT THEY UNDERSTAND THEIR CHILDREN !!! take for example today... originally i told him earlier that if it was possible to borrow his car in the evening as i had to attend seng's bdae and wanted to go out after that... he told me that they will be going out and if they are back early i could use it... they werent back before i left, so i decided to borrow the car after the party... guess what he said "u pay for the pertol n parking fees as well as the car must be back by 1am" wtf... by the time i called him it was already 10+... how in the world am i suppose to bring the car back by then??? he told me we needed to settle the car issue when i get home, and i already knew what was going to happen... true to my beliefs, he and my mum did give me a lecture on using the car...
here are some of the reasons they gave me for not wanting to lend me the car:
1. alot of things can happen at night
2. i dont want u home late
3. by not lending u the car, im teaching u to be responsible
4. before u had a licence u could still get around, so why need the car now
u know... i can understand that the car belongs to my dad and if he doesnt want to lend it to me, so be it... but to come up with all these stupid reasons just makes me wonder... wtf is by not lending u the car, im teaching u to be responsible? if he's not going to let me practice on my own, then how am i suppose to be able to get used to driving alone... goddamnit... its not like im going drinking or something... its just going out for supper thats all... yea... isnt why ppl wanting to get a licence so much so that it would be convenient for them to drive around, instead of having to pay for taxi fares or taking a long time to get to their destinations? if not why the hell do i get a licence for... and now, i have to pay him like what $20 for each time i want to use his car, and im suppose to top up the petrol tank and pay for carpark on my own? thnX dad... with the miserable amount im getting each month, u jolly well know its impossible for me to survive with having to pay for that... anyway, im done with saying what i want to say even though there's so many more things that the both of them said that pisses me off... just needed somewhere to let it out...
anyway some pics from the party:







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